Netflix’s May December Depicts Real Stereotypes of Asian Men

The Netflix film “Could December” is closely impressed by the real-life relationship between Mary Kay Letourneau and Vili Fualaau, which might be why its depiction of stereotypes of Asian males feels so near actuality, too. The morally problematic story takes viewers on a fancy journey with troubling racial implications, significantly as they relate to weaponized whiteness and the depiction of Asian masculinity as subservient and childlike.

This extremely publicized case, in addition to its fictionalized model depicted in “Could December,” raises a central query: how did the truth that she’s a white girl impression not solely her means to groom him — an Asian American boy — but additionally the general public’s response to the story?

In “Could December,” Julianne Moore performs Gracie, the fictionalized model of Letourneau, who started sexually abusing Fualauu when he was her sixth-grade scholar. In 1997, Letourneau pled responsible to 2 counts of secondary rape however stayed with Fualaau, giving start to 2 of his kids earlier than he was 15 and ultimately marrying him. Within the movie, Gracie is married to Joe, performed by Charles Melton, the fictionalized model of Fualaau.

We choose up the motion as their youngest kids put together to graduate from highschool. At this level, Joe is a 36-year-old stay-at-home dad and Gracie is in her mid to lat e 50s. An actress named Elizabeth, portrayed by Natalie Portman, is about to play a fictionalized model of Gracie and drops into the household’s life to attempt to be taught extra about them.

All through the movie, we, like Elizabeth, start to see the actual nature of Joe and Gracie’s relationship. It is one predicated on stereotypes and racism — Joe fulfills the subdued, subservient function so usually foisted upon Asian Individuals, and their relationship is comparatively accepted as a result of Gracie weaponizes her whiteness. Finally, the movie exposes how flipped gender and racial roles enable sexual abuse to be extra palatable for and accepted by most of the people.

Let’s begin with Joe. Though he is nicely into his 30s, he more and more comes off as childlike because the movie progresses. He is not a full-fledged grownup or equal accomplice. Fairly, he’s infinitely subservient to Gracie, solely doing what he thinks is anticipated of him.

This feeds into the dangerous stereotype that Asian males are complacent and obedient. Importantly, it is a sharp distinction to how white males are often depicted: dominant, brash, aggressive. Joe virtually fades into the background at a neighborhood barbecue, virtually like he’s employed assist, till Gracie calls upon him. It is clear that Gracie has groomed him, like a toy to fill some a part of herself — and he or she’s been in a position to take action a minimum of partly due to his race.

In a single scene, for instance, Joe confides that the opposite ladies at college weren’t a lot into him, however “Gracie noticed me and I needed that.” It is clear he has internalized the white-savior advanced. Gracie was very a lot in a position to leverage the notion of Joe as an “different” to her benefit, particularly so as a result of he grew up in a principally white neighborhood. Certainly, we be taught that Gracie fetishized Joe proper from the beginning, first noticing him solely as a result of he and his household had been the one Asians within the neighborhood.

Gracie is, in distinction to Joe, way more controlling, treating Joe extra like a device or dehumanized servant than as her husband. On the identical time, she has come to weaponize her conventional “sufferer” function as a white girl. She makes it sound like everyone seems to be out to make her really feel dangerous and harm her. She even tells Elizabeth at one level, “I’m naive. I at all times have been. In a manner, it has been a present.” In her relationship with Joe, whereas she is clearly the one in management, she fights to keep up this sufferer narrative. As she explains to Elizabeth, Joe “grew up in a short time,” whereas she herself was “very sheltered.”

When Joe’s repressed emotions about how their relationship first began ultimately float to the floor, he involves her extra like a toddler than as an equal accomplice and husband. He asks, “Why cannot we discuss it?” Despite the fact that he was solely 13 years previous on the time and unable to consent, Gracie continues to feed him a false narrative. “You seduced me,” she tells him. “I do not care how previous you had been. Who was in cost? Who was the boss?”

This brings up the “scorching for instructor” trope generally depicted in films and TV exhibits. Once we see a instructor who’s a person interact with a lady scholar, it’s universally considered problematic and predatory. However when the roles are reversed, the notion is wildly completely different.

Take exhibits like “Dawson’s Creek” and “Riverdale.” In each instances, the boy scholar is the instigator. We’re led to imagine that these boys are prepared for bodily relationships, whereas the ladies academics merely get swept up in all of it. This framing utterly eclipses the reality of the matter, which is that Gracie is a pedophile and an abuser.

At play right here, too, is the express and implicit fetishization of Joe’s Asianness. It is more durable to name out as a result of we regularly see this within the type of so-called yellow fever and the objectification of Asian girls. However it occurs to Asian males as nicely — often within the type of an exoticization or emasculation.

Gracie is not the one one to fetishize Joe’s Asianness. As Elizabeth opinions the audition tapes for who may play Joe within the film inside a film, she notes that the youngsters are “not attractive sufficient. You have seen him. He is acquired this, like, quiet confidence. Whilst a child, I am certain.” Equally, she is ready to weaponize her white womanhood to seduce Joe herself.

The disturbing reality that underlies the whole film (and Letourneau’s real-life crime) is that if Joe’s character had been a white lady and Gracie’s character had been an Asian man, the narrative can be acquired in a wildly completely different manner. That dynamic can be virtually inconceivable for many American audiences to just accept as even believable. There isn’t any manner an emasculated Asian man instructor would’ve been in a position to manipulate and seduce a younger white lady scholar — and even when he did, it might be overtly predatory and unacceptable.

The relative acceptance of Gracie’s actions and motives — in addition to the opposite characters’ remedy of Joe — reaffirms that Asian males are seen as “lower than” in American society. Emasculated and fetishized, Asian males change into passive instruments to fulfill and satiate the whims and fancies of the white majority. We prepare dinner your meals and clear your laundry as anonymous, faceless, infinitely replaceable devices of absolute servitude and silent acquiescence.

In the actual world, Letourneau and Fualaau legally separated in 2019 after 14 years of marriage and two kids collectively. She died from most cancers in 2020 on the age of 58, leaving a lot of her property to Fualaau. The ending of “Could December” is not fairly so conclusive. Fairly, it leaves us with extra questions value exploring.

Standard gender stereotypes performed a central function within the media’s portrayal of the real-world story. Letourneau was offered as a social sufferer, and her relationship with Fualaau was usually described by way of love. Her prison actions had been virtually excused within the court docket of public opinion, whereas Fualaau’s lived trauma is little greater than a footnote. It is her story that is of main curiosity, not his. Fualaau fades into the background, very similar to Joe does on the neighborhood barbecue, solely introduced up when it’s handy and he’s wanted to satisfy a process.

In “Could December,” gender stereotypes equally take heart stage. However the racial implications aren’t examined with almost the identical stage of scrutiny. The ability imbalance is attributed to the dynamic between an older girl and a teenage boy, and far much less so to weaponized whiteness and subordinated Asianness.

We aren’t certain what occurs to Gracie and Joe by the tip of the movie, although it appears like she nonetheless has his claws in him and he’ll proceed to really feel hopelessly trapped of their relationship. As a result of that is what she needs, and what he needs by no means mattered anyhow.