Jenna Jameson is married!

The actress and former grownup movie star, 49, wed her girlfriend Jessi Lawless, 40, in an intimate Las Vegas marriage ceremony ceremony on Could 23.

“I discovered the individual that I really ought to have at all times been with,” Jameson completely tells PEOPLE.

“I attempt to go over in my thoughts why I ever dated or married males, and it is egocentric and dangerous to say, however I believe my driving pressure have been youngsters,” the mother of three explains. “And now that I’ve actually discovered myself, I am simply accepting of all the things that I really feel inside and do not shove all the things down.”

The newlyweds exchanged vows at Little Church of the West in Nevada, which has particular which means for Jameson, because it’s the identical place the place her dad and mom mentioned “I do.” The couple will throw a much bigger marriage ceremony when the time is correct, however for now they “run and gunned it,” as Lawless describes. “Very Las Vegas.”

Jameson, who plans on legally taking her spouse’s final identify, walked down the aisle to “Ring of Hearth” by Johnny Money in a brief white costume with a protracted veil, pink platforms and pink-dyed hair.

“My father walked Jenna down the aisle, since her father handed away,” explains Lawless, who wore a black swimsuit for the affair.

“I used to be standing up there ready for her, and I appeared in the back of the church and I noticed her standing there. I checked out my dad and mentioned, ‘Dad, go stroll Jenna down the aisle proper now.'”

In lieu of an Elvis Presley impersonator, the couple enlisted a Johnny Money look alike, who married the pair. After the ceremony, the newlyweds toured round Vegas in a neon inexperienced Lamborghini that they rented for the day.

“We went as much as Purple Rock [Canyon] and drove by there and took some photos and we simply frolicked with our household and had enjoyable,” says Lawless.

As for a way the 2 complement one another, Jameson, who refers to herself as “Jessi’s Lady” on Instagram, says that they’re “very totally different,” however make a very good workforce.

“I am type of balls to the wall and I experience the wave of my feelings,” Jameson shares. “I simply need what I need. And Jessi could be very reserved and he or she thinks all the things by, and so it is a good mesh for certain, as a result of she grounds me and I set a hearth below her a**.”

The pair first linked final 12 months after Jameson found the social media persona on TikTok and began commenting on her web page. Lawless admits it took her a second to understand who Jameson was. “I used to be like, ‘Who is that this Jenna Cannot Lose?'” she recollects of studying the star’s social media deal with. “It is Jenna fu**ing Jameson. Oh my God.”

Provides Jameson, “I used to be crushing on Jessi for a very long time as a result of she’s fairly massive on TikTok and I like TikTok. I simply scroll at evening after I’m attempting to settle down, and I simply cherished her perspective on issues, I associated to it. So I simply began mass commenting her attempting to get her consideration, and it appeared to have labored.”

Lawless explains that she had a girlfriend on the time and on account of her “ethical compass,” didn’t act on any of Jameson’s advances, however as soon as the Born Lawless podcast host’s earlier relationship ended, she responded and the pair started relationship in January.

“I knew I’d get what I needed,” Jameson chimes in, including, “She was price it. However she introduced a problem and I am very pushed with regards to challenges, so I knew I simply needed to lie and wait. And he or she got here again round.”

“I used to be like, possibly she simply needs to have some informal encounters,” Lawless says. “However I am comfortable that it went to a extra critical degree, and I’ve by no means been so snug with anybody.”

Additional expressing her love for the New York Instances bestselling writer, Lawless says there’s nothing like being within the “inspiring” firm of Jameson, which appears like “house.”

“The very second that I used to be in her presence, there’s one thing about this girl, there isn’t any phrases to explain the vitality that she has, however the very second that I used to be in her presence, I used to be like, ‘Oh, fu**. This girl was made for me.’ All the things about her felt like house.”

Lawless continues: “She’s most likely the strongest human I’ve ever met in my life.”

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After getting engaged in April, the pair determined they did not need to wait to say “I do.”

“I proposed to Jenna two months in the past, and I did it within the privateness of our personal bed room,” Lawless says. “We have been laying in mattress and we have been simply speaking, and I had the ring, I might had the ring for a minute, and I reached over in my bedside desk and I pulled it out and walked round to her facet of the mattress. I bought down on one knee and I informed her that she was essentially the most unbelievable girl that I might ever encountered and I may consider nothing higher than for her to be my spouse.”

Provides Jameson, “The longer term appears extremely vibrant and I am simply so excited to be on this journey with Jessi.”