John Mayer is a grown man with a brand new outlook on life!

The Sob Rock singer answered a bunch of fan questions on Instagram Tuesday, together with whether or not or not he nonetheless looks like a “recovering ego addict.” Getting candid about what led to his unlucky previous as a self-proclaimed egomaniac, the star detailed why issues have modified — not blaming himself, however moderately his age, saying:

“No, and I’ll let you know why. Your 20s and 30s are just like the hours between 8pm and 11 pm on a weekend night time. You’re type of frantically hoping for probably the most validating plans to come back by means of.”

Yeesh, we might’ve hated to be a pal sending any of these invalidating plans his manner. The dude appeared judgmental again within the day!

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Now as a 43-year-old, John admitted “the stress is off,” including:

“Your 40s are like 11:30 pm the place you’re like ‘hey, I might have been dwelling anyway even when I had gone out.’ The stress is off.”

Sounds a lot much less aggravating, TBH! As Perezcious readers will recall, the musician first referred to himself as a “recovering ego addict” again in 2015 whereas chatting with At the moment. Discussing his nightlife actions and why he determined to repair his dangerous fame, the guitar participant shared:

“I’m a recovered ego addict, and the one manner that I can ensure that I don’t relapse is to confess that I continually have this ego dependancy, day-after-day. So I do the Grammys and I am going dwelling as a result of if I keep, I get excessive once more.”

He additionally famous the controversy which brought about him to reevaluate his character within the first place, persevering with:

“I went, ‘All proper, dude, you probably did a pair interviews the place you have been out of contact and also you have been being a ham — and also you have been mainly break dancing right into a nitroglycerin plant, proper?’”

On the time, he revealed the choice to restrict social media utilization and cease kissing and telling was as a result of he was starting to be pegged as a womanizer, particularly for controversial feedback made about ex-girlfriend Jessica Simpson.

Again in 2010, the songwriter notably described the writer as a “sexual napalm.”  The Playboy interview caught lots of warmth, with the 41-year-old later writing in her memoir Open Guide:

“I continually nervous that I wasn’t sensible sufficient for him. He was so intelligent and handled dialog like a pleasant competitors that he needed to win.”

Yup, seems like that ego was an actual drawback!

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Whereas issues have modified for the higher, he clearly nonetheless cares about his ego slightly bit, no less than sufficient to not publicly apologize to his ex. In March, Jessica determined she wasn’t going to attend round for an apology anymore… ‘Trigger even when John ever did come begging for forgiveness (which is unlikely), his phrases wouldn’t change a factor. She instructed Tamron Corridor:

“No, I undoubtedly don’t really feel that I’m owed a public apology. I imply, you may’t take it again. And I’m a really forgiving particular person however I’m additionally trustworthy. So, within the memoir, if I’m gonna speak about stuff that brought about me ache, I’m going to be trustworthy about it. And that was a time in my life that I used to be very manipulated and likewise in love, or seemingly.”

On Watch What Occurs Stay, the performer revealed he’d “heard some bits” of the guide, however hadn’t learn it. We’re betting we all know what chapter he peeked at. LOLz!

Are you shopping for John’s clarification that he doesn’t battle as a “recovering ego addict” anymore simply because he’s matured?? Ought to he be taking extra accountability for his actions? Sound OFF within the feedback (under)!

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