Whereas monogamy is taken into account the standard method to relationships, not each couple chooses what’s typical. In keeping with Queering Psychology, “A polyamorous particular person is somebody who can date, decide to, and/or love multiple particular person… Polyamory includes being in a number of relationships with a number of folks. Constructing connections, emotions, and commitments with multiple particular person. Every relationship appears completely different relying on the scenario and on the wants of the folks in every relationship. In [polyamory], not one of the relationships are secret. Each relationship has its boundaries and commitments relying on what the folks within the relationship(s) need.”

Likewise, polyamory isn’t the identical factor as having an open relationship or swinging as a result of “it doesn’t focus solely on intercourse and/or relationship.”